Did
you know that having high amounts of stress leads to overdosing of eating
unhealthily, making bad decisions, increase of laziness, decrease and sleep and
much more pitiful, and alarming harms towards your human health?
Well,
in return there are factors to play around that type of stress life. throughout
this blog post I will be covering the three ways of thinking terms that I used
to develop a stress free life. The three terms are simply think positive of
yourself, gain self-confidence and keep yourself around people that make you
happy.
In
addition, if you think positive of yourself, you are on step one of the road to
a stress free life. From the book Change Your Brain Change Your Body by Daniel
Amen, he states, “How Stress plays tricks with your mental health is by
draining your emotional well-being and associating anxiety and depression.
Stress activates the limbic system of the brain, which is your emotional
center.” (Amen 221). Here Amen is reconsidering that stress also builds up
depression of mental health. This can come into play in relationships, with
friends and family, etc. One of the biggest ways that I built up mental stress
was when my mom died of breast cancer 4 years ago. With my mom being dead and
not being here for me I had to build up a mindset of thinking positive and
being able to do things for myself from now on. I’ve noticed that most
teenagers my age have a mom to do most things for them and they’re spoiled. But
I have to overcome these issues myself. For example, cooking dinner at night
for myself. If you think positive of yourself and set yourself up for success
you will feel a decrease of stress throughout your life.

Furthermore,
if you gain self-confidence, you will eventually think positive of yourself and
not develop any internal stress. Amen brings up the topic of “how chronic
stress harms the brain.” He states, “Stress is a normal part of every day life.
Don’t give me wrong I little stress can be a good thing. But, there is more
negatives than positives between stress. The stress hormones are the primary
chemicals of the fight or flight response in there especially useful when you
face on immediate threat. The stress hormones majorly come into play around
mental states like death of a loved one” (Amen 215). Amen Is corresponding the
differences between positive stress and negative stress. I too agree that there
is more negative stress than positive stress. An example way that I developed
positive stress was when I lost a soccer game against a rival team that we
usually beat every year. Though losing in competitive sports games leads to
stress, me losing to that rival team motivated me for next time to work harder.
That’s developed me to gain self-confidence prepare myself for my next journey
without stress. So yes stress can be good to motivate yourself but on the Flip side majority of stress falls under the negative categories.

Lastly,
if you surround yourself around people that make you happy and are good
influences you will positively generate yourself closer towards a physical
stress free life. Amen brings up the topic of stress by stating, “You can
literally scare your body into a stress response the brain is a very powerful
organ. Brief surges of stress hormones are normally beneficial. The motivate
you to do a good job that work, Study before a test, how Your mood is with your
friends or paying your bills on time. The problem with stress in our modern
world is not these short bursts of aline and cortisol. Chronic stress
constricts blood flow to the brain, which lowers overall brain function and
prematurely age is your brain. Researchers found that stress flip-flops your
mood swings when you are with friends or family and create temporary effects on
young adults thinking and memory skills” (Amen 211). Overall, having stress in
your life develops your body to response in positive ways by motivating
yourself. But, also, in negative ways by mentally and physically constricting
your body. I have surrounded myself with positive friends and family members
that make me happy. I also surround myself with people that think positive of
me and support me through my times, and I do the same back to them.

Though
stress is a normal part of every day life, You can indeed decrease the amount
of stress by the three topics of thinking positive of yourself, gaining
self-confidence and keeping yourself around people that make you happy and a
positive influences. If you succeed in doing that, I will promise that you will
see a decrease in stress, because it worked for me in multiple ways, for
example, mental stress and physical stress.
One
statement that I could leave you off with is why set yourself up for failure by
gaining stress on your shoulders, if you could set yourself up for success by
living in a positive happy life around people you like?
If
you had the chance to get one thing back in your life that you regret doing,
wanting or having what would that be?
Amen, Daniel G. The Brain-Body Solution. Change Your Brain, Change Your Body: Use Your Brain to Get the Body You Have Always Wanted, Piatkus, 2012.