Did
you know that having high amounts of stress leads to overdosing of eating
unhealthily, making bad decisions, increase of laziness, decrease and sleep and
much more pitiful, and alarming harms towards your human health?
Well,
in return there are factors to play around that type of stress life. throughout
this blog post I will be covering the three ways of thinking terms that I used
to develop a stress free life. The three terms are simply think positive of
yourself, gain self-confidence and keep yourself around people that make you
happy.
In
addition, if you think positive of yourself, you are on step one of the road to
a stress free life. From the book Change Your Brain Change Your Body by Daniel
Amen, he states, “How Stress plays tricks with your mental health is by
draining your emotional well-being and associating anxiety and depression.
Stress activates the limbic system of the brain, which is your emotional
center.” (Amen 221). Here Amen is reconsidering that stress also builds up
depression of mental health. This can come into play in relationships, with
friends and family, etc. One of the biggest ways that I built up mental stress
was when my mom died of breast cancer 4 years ago. With my mom being dead and
not being here for me I had to build up a mindset of thinking positive and
being able to do things for myself from now on. I’ve noticed that most
teenagers my age have a mom to do most things for them and they’re spoiled. But
I have to overcome these issues myself. For example, cooking dinner at night
for myself. If you think positive of yourself and set yourself up for success
you will feel a decrease of stress throughout your life.
Furthermore,
if you gain self-confidence, you will eventually think positive of yourself and
not develop any internal stress. Amen brings up the topic of “how chronic
stress harms the brain.” He states, “Stress is a normal part of every day life.
Don’t give me wrong I little stress can be a good thing. But, there is more
negatives than positives between stress. The stress hormones are the primary
chemicals of the fight or flight response in there especially useful when you
face on immediate threat. The stress hormones majorly come into play around
mental states like death of a loved one” (Amen 215). Amen Is corresponding the
differences between positive stress and negative stress. I too agree that there
is more negative stress than positive stress. An example way that I developed
positive stress was when I lost a soccer game against a rival team that we
usually beat every year. Though losing in competitive sports games leads to
stress, me losing to that rival team motivated me for next time to work harder.
That’s developed me to gain self-confidence prepare myself for my next journey
without stress. So yes stress can be good to motivate yourself but on the Flip side majority of stress falls under the negative categories.
Lastly,
if you surround yourself around people that make you happy and are good
influences you will positively generate yourself closer towards a physical
stress free life. Amen brings up the topic of stress by stating, “You can
literally scare your body into a stress response the brain is a very powerful
organ. Brief surges of stress hormones are normally beneficial. The motivate
you to do a good job that work, Study before a test, how Your mood is with your
friends or paying your bills on time. The problem with stress in our modern
world is not these short bursts of aline and cortisol. Chronic stress
constricts blood flow to the brain, which lowers overall brain function and
prematurely age is your brain. Researchers found that stress flip-flops your
mood swings when you are with friends or family and create temporary effects on
young adults thinking and memory skills” (Amen 211). Overall, having stress in
your life develops your body to response in positive ways by motivating
yourself. But, also, in negative ways by mentally and physically constricting
your body. I have surrounded myself with positive friends and family members
that make me happy. I also surround myself with people that think positive of
me and support me through my times, and I do the same back to them.
Though
stress is a normal part of every day life, You can indeed decrease the amount
of stress by the three topics of thinking positive of yourself, gaining
self-confidence and keeping yourself around people that make you happy and a
positive influences. If you succeed in doing that, I will promise that you will
see a decrease in stress, because it worked for me in multiple ways, for
example, mental stress and physical stress.
One
statement that I could leave you off with is why set yourself up for failure by
gaining stress on your shoulders, if you could set yourself up for success by
living in a positive happy life around people you like?
If
you had the chance to get one thing back in your life that you regret doing,
wanting or having what would that be?
Amen, Daniel G. The Brain-Body Solution. Change Your Brain, Change Your Body: Use Your Brain to Get the Body You Have Always Wanted, Piatkus, 2012.
Amen, Daniel G. The Brain-Body Solution. Change Your Brain, Change Your Body: Use Your Brain to Get the Body You Have Always Wanted, Piatkus, 2012.
Dealing with stress is something that I often struggle with. Taking into the fact that the semester is ending, and that finals are coming up, I find this post very helpful!
ReplyDeleteThank you Bridget Gregerson for commenting on my post about why it is important to keep a low amounts of stress in your life. It is very true most students are overwhelmed with stress during finals week. One way to get rid of some stress is planning out your week. Plan a procedure for how you are going to study for each class and how long. Sometimes eating food or laying in bed can make you more comfortable and make it easier to study. You are welcome for the helpful post!
DeleteVery good post Kyle! Stress can be detrimental, especially towards students. However personally I have not experienced stress as extreme as others. I tend to have positive outlooks and look forward to go school. With that type of attitude I have never really stressed over life. Now another tip students probably should learn is organization of their time after school! With all the homework of course people can get overworked but if you schedule certain homework pieces in certain times you can definitely finish quicker and with less stress!
ReplyDeleteYes Evan, that's the spirit! you need to develop a prepared mindset for the outcomes of the stress being out on you. Homework is defiantly one of the top stress acquaintances for students.
DeleteAwesome Post Kyle, Stress is such a relevant thing in everyone's daily life style. Personally i have experienced stress and a lot over it at one point in time. Next time if i ever feel stressed or worried about something i will take your tips into consideration.
ReplyDeleteNice job,
Hannah Jensen
Thank you so much Hannah Jensen for your time and thoughts put in on my blog post about "Why It Is Important to Keep Low Amounts of Stress." It is true that the procedures from the book were used on many individuals on metal and physical stress and calmed them down imminently from their stress.
DeleteStress just seems to be a part of a modern life. I think some amount of stress is actually not necessarily a bad thing. It's when you let that stress negatively impact your habits/habits of mind that it becomes negative or when you allow the stress to overwhelm you to the point of inactivity that it becomes negative. What do you think: is some amount of stress helpful, perhaps motivational? I know personally, I work best under a small amount of pressure. I really don't believe in regrets in life. Everything that has happened to me has led me to this point and I am very happy with where I am currently at. If I were to regret something from my past or undo it, I wouldn't be who I am or might not be where I currently am. There is nothing, not even the painful experiences I have had, that I would undo. What do you think of this philosophy?
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Mrs. Robison for your time and thoughts put in on my blog post about "Why It Is Important to Keep Low Amounts of Stress." Personally I feel that some stress can develop you to make better decisions on some standards too. Also you are correct there are no regrets in life, and the decision was made for a reason at the desired time, place, area, etc.
DeleteThanks for your thoughts,
Kyle Duppenthaler
I think this delivers a very important message. It was helpful for me because you explained various methods to cope with stress. I plan on using these ways throughout my life.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your time and thoughts put in on my blog post about "Why It Is Important to Keep Low Amounts of Stress." Personally I feel that some stress can develop you to make better decisions on some standards too. Also you are correct there are no regrets in life, and the decision was made for a reason at the desired time
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